How our words matter across generations

This is based on a true incident. There once lived a woman who looked beautiful outside and lived in a upper middle class family. She happened to get married to a person who was from lower middle class family. After marriage she didn't trust it was God's match for her. Although her husband was good earning and didn't have any bad habits such as drinking or smoking, she cried for having got to married to her husband who was from lower middle class family. She took hold of her son , rubbed both his arms and lamented to him asking him to behave well and not to add to her trouble of having got married to this man. This got well inscribed in the small boy's heart of which he could recollect even in his 60's. What this did in the boy's life is , he could never accept his wife as the match from God and the lamentation continued as to why he got married to the wife he got. Poor wife and his family, everyday he made it as hell since he felt as hell living with his wife. 

What you say/do -- matters/affects across generations. Trusting God and speaking God's words is very important.